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How To Turn Conflict into Connection | Emil Harker | #22
In this episode, Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz sit down with therapist Emil Harker to explore how conflict—when handled intentionally—can deepen intimacy. By assuming good intent, validating emotional experiences, responding to criticism with humility, and prioritizing connection over solutions, couples can transform everyday disagreements into outposts of closeness and trust.
Preparing for Marriage and Surviving the First Year | Dr. Mark Ogletree | #21
Drs. Dave and Liz talk with Dr. Mark Ogletree about building a solid marriage foundation. Whether you're engaged, newlywed, or seasoned spouses, discover how to strengthen connection with premarital assessments, conversations on expectations and in-laws, the 12 core traits for marriage, and daily rituals that reignite love—even amid the challenges of the first year.
Can Marriage Survive Abuse, Affairs, and Addiction? | Geoff Steurer | #19
Dr. Geoff Steurer joins Drs. Dave and Liz to tackle marriage crises marked by abuse, affairs, and addiction—what he calls the ‘Three A’s.’ He unpacks early intervention steps, outlines how 70–80% of marriages survive these traumas, and gives both partners guidance—whether inside or outside the relationship—on how to respond, heal, and rebuild trust.
Getting To The Heart of Connection | Dr. Wally Goddard | #17
Dr. Wally Goddard joins Drs. Dave and Liz to remind us that true connection begins in the heart—not just with skills, but with humility, curiosity, and understanding. Learn how embracing irritation as an invitation, focusing on the 80%, and caring with compassion shifts both your self-awareness and your relationship. This episode invites you to become a healer, not a preacher.
Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts | Dr. Les Parrott | #16
Dr. Les Parrott and Dr. Dave break down essential tools for couples—whether engaged, newly married, or long-term partners. From the SYMBIS and PREPARE/ENRICH assessments to forming the habits of cooperation, ownership, respect, and empathy, they discuss binding marriages with intentional habits, healthy conflict, empathy, and lifelong partnership. Discover timeless insights to strengthen your foundation before marriage really begins.
Countering Marriage Myths | Richard & Linda Eyre | #15
Richard and Linda Eyre unpack their latest book, The 8 Myths of Marriaging, reframing harmful beliefs—like the Clone Myth, No-Waves Myth, Independence Myth, and more—that can undermine connection. In this episode, they invite listeners to treat marriage as a verb, practice weekly marriage meetings, and replace myths with intentional truth to build intimacy, commitment, and joy.
Navigating The Holidays After Betrayal | Jill Manning | #14
Betrayal during the holiday season can cause feelings of joy and celebration to turn sour. However, there is hope. Dr. Jill Manning joins Liz to share her expertise in navigating the holidays after betrayal. Get cozy and tune in for a recipe for holiday healing. When betrayal collides with the holidays, joy can feel distant. Dr. Jill Manning urges gentle self-care: simplify traditions, let feelings unfold, journal honestly, and integrate healing into celebrations. Keep your routines grounded—like a walk, a therapy session, or reaching out to a safe ally. These small, intentional actions can light your path toward hope and connection in a season often marked by sting and shame.