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How To Turn Conflict into Connection | Emil Harker | #22
In this episode, Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz sit down with therapist Emil Harker to explore how conflict—when handled intentionally—can deepen intimacy. By assuming good intent, validating emotional experiences, responding to criticism with humility, and prioritizing connection over solutions, couples can transform everyday disagreements into outposts of closeness and trust.

Getting To The Heart of Connection | Dr. Wally Goddard | #17
Dr. Wally Goddard joins Drs. Dave and Liz to remind us that true connection begins in the heart—not just with skills, but with humility, curiosity, and understanding. Learn how embracing irritation as an invitation, focusing on the 80%, and caring with compassion shifts both your self-awareness and your relationship. This episode invites you to become a healer, not a preacher.

What Happened to Our Relationship Connection? 8 'Ds' That Disrupt Intimacy| Dave & Liz | #12
Have you ever wondered why the spark slowly fades? In this episode, Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz use a relationship pool metaphor—reminding us that connection needs intentional “cups” added regularly. They then unpack eight common threats to intimacy—from drifting and defensiveness to digital distractions—so couples can become aware and take steps to fill their connection pool before it runs dry.