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Why Conflict Is A Cry For Safety And How To Respond | Kirsten Davidson | #185
What keeps couples emotionally connected through life's challenges? In this episode, therapist Kirsten Davidson shares how vulnerability, curiosity, and self-awareness can transform relationships. Drawing from Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, she explains how understanding our emotions, challenging assumptions, and communicating with honesty can help couples move beyond conflict and strengthen lasting connection.
Why Relationships Feel Hard And How To Make Them Safe | Dr. Stan Tatkin | #162
We explore how to design a fair, secure-functioning relationship that protects both partners, repairs fast, and prevents repeated harm. Dr. Stan Tatkin explains why instinct fights intimacy and how governance, PEPPER, and daily presence keep love strong under stress.
Transforming Conflict into Connection and Radical Forgiveness | Chad Ford | #138
Conflict is inevitable in marriage, but destruction isn't. Chad Ford shares how to transform fear-based reactions into opportunities for deeper connection. The goal isn't a conflict-free marriage, but doing conflict well.
Why We Argue So Much? | Laura Heck and Zach Brittle | #121
How To Turn Conflict into Connection | Emil Harker | #22
In this episode, Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz sit down with therapist Emil Harker to explore how conflict—when handled intentionally—can deepen intimacy. By assuming good intent, validating emotional experiences, responding to criticism with humility, and prioritizing connection over solutions, couples can transform everyday disagreements into outposts of closeness and trust.