When My Child Hits: Gentle Strategies for Ages 2–6

It’s common—and totally normal—for children ages 2–6 to hit when emotions run high. Dr. Dave Schramm walks parents through five thoughtful steps: see the situation from your child’s perspective, prevent triggers, act without shaming, help them calm down, and gently teach kindness. With grace and good boundaries, even tough moments become opportunities for connection and growth.

Consider this, how we respond rather than react will make all the difference.

1. Look at things from your child’s point of view and remember that it’s a process to learn better behaviors;

2. Prevent problems when possible;

3. Take action without insult;

4. Help your child calm down and feel safe; and

5. Teach and show your child how to be kind.